当人们花很长时间回复我们的短信时，我们经常感到恼火或焦虑，但“慢慢地，花很长时间”是关键。

在冬至给朋友的一封信

As a teenager who has grown up in an age defined by technology and social media, I did not think I would like having to wait days for a single response.

我想起，或许是阿根廷最有名的歌手José Larralde唱过的一首歌，歌里他唱道：我在同一个地方，到过全世界。

I was so happy that I went around the house saying "I RECEIVED A LETTER FROM JAPAN"

Our letters are long, drawn out paragraphs, about everything...

现在我还有一个新的梦想，那就是买一张去韩国的机票，飞到首尔去见我的灵魂伴侣！

With no pretense, I suddenly found special people who cheer up my heart and make smile and laugh many times.

我就像发现亚特兰提斯一样! 我找到了很多跟我拥有同样兴趣的好人。

这个特别的通知让他在阴郁的日子里快乐无比，即使这意味着19个小诗痛苦而甜蜜的等待。

他比我年长 60 岁，但我们仍然可以找到共同话题，彼此理解与分享

我们的友谊将超过一年。而且每天我都会结交新朋友！